relationship — Blog — Antesa Jensen

Without understanding how and why it happens, we inadvertently recreate the very dynamics we abhorred from our childhood, and pin our unmet needs from the past, and the expectations we have about intimacy, onto our partner(s), instead.

Antesa JensenOctober 28, 2023reparenting, healing, intimacy, relationship, parenting, childhood, transformation

How to heal your mother wound.

My mom and I had a rough go of it for the first 33 years of my life. We saw eye to eye on very little and generally didn’t understand one another. Read on to learn how we healed our relationship.

Antesa JensenNovember 10, 2020mother wound, healing, relationship, family dysfunction, what is the mother wound

Where do union and sovereignty originate from?

How is it possible for us to experience both union and sovereignty in relationship? Where do these experiences originate from?

Antesa JensenJanuary 14, 2020sovereignty, union, relationship, non-attachment, sacred intimacy

Love determines the form.

How do you know whether you want monogamy or polyamory or something else entirely? Ask the relationship.

Antesa JensenJune 12, 2019monogamy, polyamory, love, relationship, sacred intimacy, sacred relationship, connection

Finding love is not like winning the lottery.

We're inclined to think that finding love is sort of like winning the lottery. I hear my clients say all the time that there aren't enough good men or women out there, that you have to be careful about whom you invest in, that dating is so hard, yadda yadda yadda.

Antesa JensenMarch 16, 2019how to find love, relationship, creating connection, sacred intimacy, sacred relationship, relationship tools, self-love, coaching

Your partner is never a project.

When we see our partners or potential suitors as projects, we create the very thing we’re trying to prevent, and repel the thing we want the most in partnership.

Antesa JensenFebruary 13, 2019partnership, relationship, healing, transformation, heal the patriarchy, rebellious alchemy

It's not him; it's you.

Three places where you’re probably out of integrity and what to do about it.

Antesa JensenFebruary 1, 2019integrity, alignment, relationship, connection, business success

Loyalty is the toxic mimic of devotion.

Loyalty is the toxic mimic of devotion, and my dear lover, we are being called to worship.

Antesa JensenJanuary 30, 2019devotion, sacred intimacy, sacred relationship, relationship, desire, self-trust, self-love, self-recognition

Touch god through sacred intimacy.

Antesa JensenJanuary 24, 2019sacred intimacy, sensuality, surrender, yearning, sovereignty, relationship

It is possible to experience love without angst.

I had, in my early childhood development, conflated angst and fear with love. And so I was hyper vigilant in my connections with people whom I got close with, and it would literally drive me crazy.

Antesa JensenJanuary 2, 2019relationship, anxious attachment style, secure attachment style, avoidant attachment style, trust, self-trust, consciousness, needs, partnership, healing

7 steps to surviving the holidays with your family.

How do you get to be yourself around your family members without burning the house down?

Antesa JensenDecember 24, 2017coach, life coach, personal growth, family, family drama, power, control, manipulation, eggshells, relationship, approval, compassion, brilliance, unique, the path, surrender, personal responsibility, honest, radical honesty, authenticity, truth

Our preferences are disconnecting us.

Where are you preventing yourself from experiencing truly profound connection?

Antesa JensenNovember 16, 2017preferences, judgment, personal responsibility, personal development, personal growth, emotional intelligence, relationship, coach, life coach, coaching

We need each other.

We need each other. We are interdependent, perfectly incomplete and equally vital and valuable.

Antesa JensenNovember 7, 2017divine feminine, masculine, feminine, man, woman, divine masculine, influence, inspiration, creation, creativity, interdependence, personal growth, personal development, transformation, relationship

A relationship tailor-made for me.

For a long time I thought there must be an elusive thing I was missing. Like, some relationship gene that didn't get passed down to me. I looked at it like this failure in my life, and all the while, I was not actually taking active measures to date.

Antesa JensenSeptember 28, 2017relationships, relationship, unique, intimacy, connection, self-worth, settling down, sex, monogamy, polyamory, be yourself, be myself, how to be myself, unconventional, radical thought

I am the rulebook.

Sometimes I want to be arrived already, and of course the further down this path I get, the clearer I am that the only thing I could ever possibly know is who I am, and that that journey is a lifelong, perpetually unfolding, relationship.

Antesa JensenJuly 1, 2017influence, be myself, rulebook, template, relationship, trust, community, decision making, how to know, brilliance, how to be myself, lose myself, self-discovery, self-worth, self-recognition

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